Well, if you like Harry Potter that is. Otherwise it might be time to reconsider your future together.
Fortunately the brides and grooms in these pictures didn't face that kind of awkward scenario, because as you can see, these happy couples share one very important thing in common: they're all total geeks.
See for yourself in this list of awesome alternative weddings compiled by Bored Panda.
Whether you're a fan of Super Mario, Harry Potter, Lord of the Rings or Disney movies, you're sure to find a wedding that speaks to your inner geek.
(Pics - Bored Panda)
Magical Harry Potter themed wedding
Little Mermaid themed wedding
Lord Of The Rings themed wedding
Alice In Wonderland themed wedding
Doctor Who themed wedding
Star Wars themed wedding
Star Wars themed wedding
Super Mario themed wedding
Minecraft wedding
Hunger Games themed wedding